I stumbled upon an AI-generated script and thought: Really?
Is this all midlife has to offer? Do I really need a little red Corvette
(sorry, Prince) to feel alive, or a twenty-something partner to validate my
existence? Admittedly, I did find myself browsing scooters at South Side
Scooters—after all, they’re essentially convertibles for those who enjoy
parking in tight spots. But rather than dive headfirst into the world of two
wheels and a helmet that screams Italian fantasy, I hit the brakes. My own late
midlife awakening came with a hyphen, a handful of supplements, some mushroom
coffee, and yes, an elliptical.
One of the most meaningful changes was reclaiming my
heritage. I hyphenated my last name to include my mother’s Hispanic family
name—not just because it looks stylish on email signatures (and it does), but
because it holds significance. It's a daily reminder of my roots and the
culture that shaped me long before I cared about my waistline or crow’s feet. As
musical artists like Jim Croce and the Goo Goo Dolls suggest, names carry
history. Adding that hyphen wasn’t merely cosmetic; it was like upgrading to a
better version of myself. Sure, it takes a little longer to fill out forms now,
but meaningful change often comes with added paperwork.
I’ve also transformed how I fuel my days. While some guys might be knocking back bourbon in expensive tumblers or waiting in line at Starbucks for triple espressos, I opt for powdered mushrooms stirred into hot unsweetened almond milk, in hopes of achieving "focus & clarity." I can only imagine what my Appalachian father would say: “Boy, your coffee is made from fungus? Buddy, we used to call that penicillin!”
And then there’s my morning supplement routine, which
resembles preparations for a science fair rather than a simple breakfast:
vitamins, powders, and capsules, all aimed at improving gut health. Do they
work? Who knows, but at least my urine glows like a neon yield sign, so
something must be happening, right?
In terms of physical activity, I’ve swapped horsepower for
human power. Instead of roaring down the highway in a convertible, I ride my
bike, swim laps, and push myself on the elliptical. Swimming brings a sense of
weightlessness and quiets my mind. Biking grants me the thrill of freedom
without the burden of an added car payment. And the elliptical? Well, it’s an
instrument of humility—twenty minutes on that contraption leaves me questioning
every life choice that led me there. It’s like running, but with a constant
reminder that I’m not as young as I used to be. Yet somehow, these choices feel
authentic. A convertible may look exhilarating, but an elliptical proves just
how much slower I’ve become.
Bottom line, none of this feels like a crisis to me.
Instead, it feels like a recalibration. Midlife isn’t a dead end; it’s a U-turn,
if you need one, or simply a lane change, even if you don’t. For me, it’s about
honoring my roots, investing in my well-being, and finding humor in my own
quirks along the way. I didn’t buy the convertible. I didn’t chase someone
else’s youth. Instead, I chased my own, with a bike, an elliptical, and
mushroom coffee that tastes suspiciously like soil but promises wisdom with
every sip.
If midlife is supposed to be a crisis, I’ll gladly remain in crisis mode. But truthfully, I prefer to think of it as a renaissance, a chance to
rediscover what truly matters and quiet the noise of societal expectations.
Your journey might not involve a hyphenated name, mushroom coffee, or
elliptical-induced regret, but what part of yourself can you redefine?
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