Servant Leadership: A Reflection on John 13

"Very truly, I tell you, servants are not greater than their master, nor are messengers greater than the one who sent them... I am not speaking of all of you; I know whom I have chosen... Very truly, I tell you, whoever receives one whom I send receives me; and whoever receives me receives him who sent me." — John 13:16, 18, 20

This week’s Gospel readings have carried a consistent theme: Jesus reminding His followers—again and again—that to know Him is to know the Father. Yesterday, He was firm with Philip, who pleaded, “Just show us the Father.” Jesus responded with clarity and conviction: “If you know me, you know the Father.”

Today’s reading takes us back to the Last Supper. Interestingly, there’s no mention of the breaking of bread or sharing of the cup. Instead, we witness Jesus washing the feet of His disciples—a powerful act of humility and service. Here, Jesus institutes the concept of Servant Leadership.

I first encountered this idea nearly 25 years ago through a dear friend, Fr. Tom Santen. His
example and teachings planted a seed in me that continues to grow. Every day, I strive to refine my commitment to humility and service—especially in my role as a school leader.

That commitment is tested daily. On my commute, I pass individuals sleeping in parks, under overpasses, or walking the streets with all their belongings. I’m flooded with emotions—compassion, guilt, discomfort. I ask myself: Do I judge them? Do I feel superior? Why don’t I stop and help? Jesus reminds us: The master is not greater than the servant. Even He, the Son of God, humbled Himself to wash the feet of flawed men.

Saint Ignatius once said, “Love is shown more in deeds than in words.” Words without action are just noise. There’s something deeply symbolic in washing another’s feet—it’s a gesture of vulnerability, humility, and love. Today’s “foot washing” might look like lending a hand, listening without judgment, or simply being present for someone in need.

We are called to be the hands and feet of Jesus in the world. To serve, not to be served. To love, not just in word, but in action.

Call to Action:
This week, look for opportunities to practice servant leadership. Whether it’s offering a kind word, helping someone in need, or simply choosing humility over pride—let your actions reflect the love of Christ. Ask yourself: Whose feet can I wash today? And remember, in serving others, we receive Christ Himself.

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